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On
the 21st of the month the best man I know will do what he always
does on the 21st of the month.
He’ll sit down and pen a love letter to his best girl. He’ll say how much he misses her and loves
her and can’t wait to see her again.
Then,
he’ll fold it once, slide it into a little envelope and walk into his
bedroom. He’ll go to the stack of love
letters sitting there on her pillow, untie the yellow ribbon, place the new one
on top and tie the ribbon again.
The
stack will be 180 letters high then because the 21st will be 15 years
to the day since Nellie, his beloved wife of 53 years, died. In her memory he sleeps only on his half of
the bed, only on his pillow, only on top of the sheets, never between - with
just the old bedspread they shared to keep him warm.
There’s
never been a finer man or a finer coach in American sports than John
Wooden. He won 10 N.C.A.A. Basketball
Championships at UCLA, the last in 1975.
Nobody has ever come within six of him.
He won 88 straight games between January 30th, 1971 and
January 17th, 1974. Nobody
has come within 42 since.
So, sometimes when the basketball madness gets to be too much
- too many players trying to make Sports Center, too few players trying to make
assists, too few coaches willing to be mentors, too many freshmen with out-of-wedlock
kids, too few freshmen who will stay in school long enough to become men - I
like to go see Coach Wooden. I visit
him in his little condo in Encino, 20 minutes northwest of Los Angeles, and
hear him say things like, “Gracious sakes alive!” and tell stories about
teaching ‘Lewis’ the hook shot. Lewis
Alcindor, that is…who became Kareem Abdul-Jabbar.
There
has never been another coach like Wooden, quiet as an April snow and square as
a game of checkers; loyalty to one woman, one school, one way; walking around
campus in his sensible shoes and Jimmy Stewart morals.
He’d
spend a half-hour the first day of practice teaching his men how to put on a
sock. “Wrinkles can lead to blisters,”
he’d warn. These huge players would sneak
looks at one another and roll their eyes.
Eventually, they’d do it right. “Good,”
he’d say, “And now the other foot.”
Of
the 180 players who played for him, Wooden knows the whereabouts of 172. Of course, it’s not hard when most of them
call, checking on his health, secretly hoping to hear some of his simple life
lessons so that they can write them on the lunch bags of their kids who will
roll their eyes. “Discipline
yourself and others won’t need to,” Coach would say. “Never lie, never cheat, never steal,” and “Earn the right to be
proud and confident.”
If
you played for him you played by his rules: Never score without acknowledging a
teammate. One word of profanity and you’re
done for the day. Treat your opponent
with respect. He believed in hopelessly
out-of-date stuff that never did anything but win championships. No dribbling behind the back or through the
legs. “There’s no need,” he’d say. No UCLA basketball number was retired under
his watch. “What about the fellows who
wore that number before? Didn’t they
contribute to the team?” he’d ask.
No
long hair, no facial hair. “They take
too long to dry and you could catch cold leaving the gym,” he’d state. That one drove his players bonkers.
One
day All-American center, Bill Walton, showed up with a full beard. “It’s my right,” he insisted….Wooden asked
if he believed that strongly. Walton
said he did. “That’s good, Bill,” Coach
replied, “I admire people who have strong beliefs and stick by them, I really
do. We’re going to miss you.” Walton shaved it right then and there. Now Walton calls once a week to tell Coach
he loves him.
It’s
always too soon when you have to leave the condo and go back out into the
real world where the rules are so much grayer and
teams so much worse. As Wooden shows
you to the door you take one last look around.
The framed report cards of his great-grandkids, the boxes of jellybeans
peeking out from the favorite wooden chair, the dozens of pictures of Nellie.
He’s
almost 90 now, you think a little more hunched over than last time. His steps are a little smaller. You hope it’s not the last time you see
him. He smiles, “I’m not afraid to die,”
he says. “Death is my only chance to be
with her again.” The problem is, we
still need him here.
--Written
by a Sportswriter
“There is only one kind of a life that
truly wins and that is the one that places faith in the hands of the Savior. Until
that is done, we are on an aimless course that runs in circles and goes
nowhere. Material possessions, winning scores and great reputations are
meaningless in the eyes of the Lord because He knows what we really are and
that is all that matters.”
--John Wooden
My
son tells me that John Wooden is a member of the Christian Church.